So it doesn't all have to be good. It could be bad. So we're not even thinking of the opposite of these, if there was one people. So if we did all gather, like you said, then it'd be too many people. And then when there's less, when there's too many people, everybody can't be heard.
So that's why there's villages and then a long time ago, it'd be a big thing to go to another village. Like from here to just Gakona it was a whole planning. And then they wouldn't go just for the day. They'd be there for like a week or a couple of weeks or so. But you go and you don’t have that like one-on-one engaging and then, and you go for a certain amount of time because things come out and you remember things and then, you know, kind of a sense of healing.
So now things are rushed. So when we have our potlatches, it's only like a day. Back then it used to be like a week. Like people, they come and then stay with the family for a week. And that's because everything doesn't come out at once. Like say somebody had dropped something and they remembered, you know, their loved one that had passed and they did this in and you know, stuff like that comes up then that helps heal. So if we were all one people, there wouldn't be that smaller intimacy.
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